What women want they get if they ask

As a woman, I have struggled to ask and receive what I want in a relationship. Having the courage to ask my partner to slow down seemed so daunting because I could never tell how he might react to my request. Every inch of my body would plead for him to slow down and give me the reassurance I need to go further. What I forgot is that ultimately he wants to please me in every way and would do anything to help me get there. If I am unfulfilled then so is he. Men require much less physical stimulation to achieve arousal and a emotional attachment is just a pleasant bonus. I think it's the opposite for a woman and that see needs to feel secure and she will get what her heart wants before she can physically and mentally open up. A man need guidance of how to best please a woman. His greatest reward is knowing that he has made her happy. He then has purpose, feels needed and cherished. A woman ultimately has the most say of how happy the relationship is if she helps her man do the things that will make her happy. We all have the basic need to please our partner and make them feel good. A woman must feel good in herself before she can attempt to make others feel good. When a man can make a woman feel beautiful it is because she knows how to receive and is open to more. No matter how many times a man man say it however it can hit a brick wall if she is not ready to hear it and accept it.

Guy "you're so beautiful"
Girl's thoughts (i don't think i'm beautiful, he must be saying that because he wants something)

Guy "you're so beautiful"
Girl's thoughts (he thinks i'm beautiful)

I think its more about fully digesting what your partner has said and validating his words until it it feels solid and real. I think all women want to hear that they are beautiful and believe their partner.

Message to God, please read a.s.a.p

How can I explain this so you might understand
In this I need a helping hand
God, help Barron to have patience with me
Comfort him and let me speak expressivly
Let him know how I feel about him
Take all my confusion and throw it in the bin

Leave me with the pure good feeling
Let my soul get on with healing
Will holding back bring us closer?
Please end this rollercoaster

Tell him I want him, I need him, He gives me something to believe in
I crave his kisses and touch, it feels so good how could it be sin
To lay side by side my hand on his cheek
Makes me feel tender and meek

I have developed a taste for love
Heavens grant me this from the powers above
Let me stay in love so happyily at play
Let our love grow more and more each day

Take all my doubt and fear
Make it disapear
Let us be really happy
Please make it snappy!